A Girl In Time

A girl............... A never ending story. A life with changes and acceptance all time and in different phases of life.
Well “I” (Girl)
I live a life but before all I am born a daughter, I am crying but my dad is happy he has got his partner in all activities he has become a King of a Princess, my mother is happy to see me and my dad, she touches my cheeks n kisses me... I am a girl - A Daughter

I am a school girl a friend, a student, I have aunties and uncles around too... I am safe and happy... Happy World full with toys and friends... But there is someone thinking bad about me... Well she is a girl she won’t take family name ahead... She is a girl can be raped but I am school going...I am a girl - A Student

I am a college going girl and it’s my 18th birthday now I am an adult a daughter when turned 18.. Let’s get her married lets search a boy for her... Teach her cooking and other house old chores fast... Neighbors, relatives, aunties, uncle, society she is adult now let her get married fast... Because in India a girl can get married when she is 18 years old.. I am not yet Graduate.. But marriage.. I am worried... I am a girl - An Adult

I am a graduate it’s my graduation day I will finally get my certificates and passed with good marks I am so happy and had been waiting for this day since my childhood, today my parents will see me being a graduate.. Hurray Hurray!!! Woaa fun, friends are here family is here.. My parents had tears because they saw me soo happy... My neighbors are at my home telling my parents about a boy for me to get married after all studies are over... I am a Girl - A Graduate.

A new day after graduation I had got selected in college campus interviews and today is my 1st day to office. I was happy to enter and nervous too.. I met my representatives, my CEO, I was been checked from hair to toe initially as it was my 1st day for my presentation and proper dress code, days passed one fine day I was in my office got too late had a lot of work a man came to me and asked for lift I replied, “no I have called for cab”.. I went down cab was late.. I got a call from agency, “cab cannot reach on time as its Tyre got punctured”, I headed towards bus stand was too nervous as it was getting late for home my parents called me thrice and my dad was not so well to come to pick me up, later my phone battery got over, I was all alone at bus stop then again I was asked for lift by my colleague I had to reply, “Yes”.. We were in car a few minutes later he stopped car at side of the road and tried his hands on me I hesitated I tried to stop but he did not.. That night I cannot forget ever in my life... He kept on molesting me by his dirty hands and I agreed to his trial I asked him to please let me take out my handkerchief from my bag, he agreed... Then he tried again and I went near him really close to him then.... I opened car central lock sprayed paper spray on him and rescued from car... I am a Girl - A Strong Independent Girl.

Turned

You will think what is this turn as anyone can turn even you can turn around. But turning around and turning own life are 2 different poles.
I am 21 and living in the fastest moving city Mumbai. Believe me, people hardly have time for each other specially after college gets over.
A life to start with birth than learning than pre school than school along with tutuion adding to it special curricular activities classes than comes the monster well in normal language we call it 10th board exams and then choose a field again 1 monster ahead than degree college and then work then blah blah blah...grrrrrr..... What man yeh bhi koi life hai !!!
Yes yes yes it is all so not bad until you learn to turn around as I did. I was gone out, met people, well in events you get the best opportunity to explore and know different kinds of people.

But there was a time where everything just seemed too dark because people suddenly started disliking me it was just like the winter cold winds blew away all the love and care from my friends mind but than realizing things, it was me who had distanced people from myself.
Well just think if you go in a market place and your college friends are standing & you wave at them but they just ignore!!!, it was not their fault

its usually us

who make people think we are such a person not to be waved at.
You go around a wall walk nearby and think, wall will talk to you and you start talking but then what! you will shutup, because the wall wont reply you. This is where you need to realize that in this world things just don’t come from one side you need to turn your life by taking steps by yourself and yes it is not so easy at starting but it surely works, it just takes time.
Just try giving smile to people near by you, may be your neighbour or may be your classmate, and may be not in starting but surely for the next time or later you will get approach starting from them.
Just remember to link with the world you need to be turn around and within the world.

Its all easy with a Smile :) :) :)