I am 21 and living in the fastest moving city Mumbai. Believe me, people hardly have time for each other specially after college gets over.
A life to start with birth than learning than pre school than school along with tutuion adding to it special curricular activities classes than comes the monster well in normal language we call it 10th board exams and then choose a field again 1 monster ahead than degree college and then work then blah blah blah...grrrrrr..... What man yeh bhi koi life hai !!!
Yes yes yes it is all so not bad until you learn to turn around as I did. I was gone out, met people, well in events you get the best opportunity to explore and know different kinds of people.
But there was a time where everything just seemed too dark because people suddenly started disliking me it was just like the winter cold winds blew away all the love and care from my friends mind but than realizing things, it was me who had distanced people from myself.
Well just think if you go in a market place and your college friends are standing & you wave at them but they just ignore!!!, it was not their fault
its usually uswho make people think we are such a person not to be waved at.
You go around a wall walk nearby and think, wall will talk to you and you start talking but then what! you will shutup, because the wall wont reply you. This is where you need to realize that in this world things just don’t come from one side you need to turn your life by taking steps by yourself and yes it is not so easy at starting but it surely works, it just takes time.
Just try giving smile to people near by you, may be your neighbour or may be your classmate, and may be not in starting but surely for the next time or later you will get approach starting from them.
Just remember to link with the world you need to be turn around and within the world.
Its all easy with a Smile :) :) :)
